I know what you are saying. but I am stressed because of fustration, the fact that my partner no longer desires me does not make me feel good, I know you have to do things for yourself to make you feel good which I do, I go to the gym and feel wonderful after...but I would like a full and loving relationship with my parnter, sex included and at for some time he has been in control of our so called sex life. I miss it, I miss him and I miss us. I dont want to go else where to have an affair. I want to share this with the man I love and want to spend the rest of my life with, but sex is not on the agenda for him....he says he has a bad back now....but to be honest it might be that or something else I have had so many excuses that its become a bit of a joke. We used to make love all over the house at different times of the day.....now when we do its at night in only in bed. He enjoys recieving oral sex and used to return the favour as such....all of a sudden he would not give me oral sex, no reasons just would not...I went through all the reasons why and he just say he doesnt want to do that any more....really fed up with thelot of it.
