Quote: H then said I told you I’m still going back and forth and I’ll keep going back and forth until one of you gets sick of it.
I think that says it all. Your H is admitting he gets his cake and eats it too. Have you read the book by James Dobson, "Love Must Be Tough?"
I think your H would come around and respect you more if you gave him some boundaries of what you will and won't accept. You can either tell him or email him, or show it through your actions.....Get a life, act as if everything is fine, don't show jealousy, don't be so available, don't answer all calls, let your H see that he could be loosing you, etc....
I bet if your H sensed he could lose you then he would start pursuing you. Do you have any male friends that could start calling the house more?
It's easier to look at someone else's sitch and view it objectively, compared to looking at our own sitch's. I definately speak from experience.
It is great that your H is home with you and not with OW. I think the more OW pursues your H and the less you pursue H, the better.
