Shiney, who is no longer posting, suggested this many time and even thought that H was cleary wanting someone to make a decision for him.
At this point I am not ready to decide or to give H the last resort. I WANT H to make the decision and why shouldn't he have to? He made the decision to have the A, to move out, to move back home and now for me to decide that enough is enough? Well I'd give H the easy way out wouldn't I?
H is waiting for one of us to crack, to "give in" says he doesn't care who he's with, it doesn't matter at all, H just wants it to end.
I'll think about it and beleive me I have many times, but don't know why I don't want to go there. Maybe it's becuase if I do "boot" H it will be over in my mind.
