My H is nuts, he's all these different people all of a sudden.

H called me at work, based on our conversation this morning of me having to work on Monday and H being able to take son to Tball. H interpreted that to be that "what do you think I'm abandoning our son?" (in my mind..well you have been gone for a few days and haven't once asked about son) I said no. It was really more me thinking out loud as I was under the assumption that you were working longer hours and that was all it was meant to mean. And the fact that it DID just dawn on me this morning

Then he made mention of "my bitchy attitude" which he hasn't said in ages. It was my attitude pre-bomb but I've worked very hard and dearly to change and I have CHANGED that "bitchy" attitude it came with the new happy ME. Not living the second half of my life the way I did the first half...angry, resentful and "bitchy" I forgot the over-reactive part of me too, seems to be gone..comes with overreacting too many times and then having things work out in the end and usually for the better. I can look ahead first and the decide if it's worth my energy. Hmmm I wonder if that's why I don't like to drink as much, I do have a beer a couple of times a week, the looking ahead, thinking about the next day and do I want to spend it feeling like crapp or do I want to enjoy it.

Then he has me if I was going to my brother's cabin next week and I said no and then me thinking, assuming he has plans with OW I say "why, what are you doing?" H said he's pre-fishing for a tournament he's fishing in the following weekened.

H also told me had to work tomorrow and would more than likely be prefishing...drum roll please...on SUNDAY! The very same SUNDAY that he was planning to move.

He shared with me his plans for this weekend, okay they're tentative for Sunday, but he is working tomorrow. And he let me know his plans for next weekend and the following weekend, said to me "well I signed up for it so I guess I gotta fish in it" or something along those lines.

So who was the "man" I spoke to yesterday? Number 1, 2 or 3?

I asked him if he was going to pick up S this afternoon and he said "probably" and I said then I'll see you later.

Cathy

P.S. Haven't asked H where his boat IS right now either. Either H has it hooked up to his truck at work or at OW's. I'll just have to wait to find out.