On the wy to the pizza place thought I'd call H on his cell. No answer left a vm asking him about his truck, asked how he was doing and said we were going out for pizza.

S4 is being very difficult tonight people, crying about everything and stubbornnnnn, OH MY on the way home from pizza S falls asleep and has been in bed every since...early for him, he was beat.

So h calls me back and asked what I wanted, repeated what I said. I asked who towed his truck and he said company S20 works for and that it cost $99. I said insurance will cover it and H says so what. Then said something about S coming to help him out since he wasn't working today..I didn't get details so not quite sure if S20 brough H here or not.

H also said that OW called to see if she could help and what couldn't I have called. I said I didn't know that you needed help and why didn't H call me, it works both ways. Well H didn't wanything to do with that response. I then said of course OW helped you out, you styaed there last night. I mean come on, if he wouldn't have stayed there he might not of had the truck problems and/or the playout of the days plot might have been different.

H then wanted to know why I hadn't come to OW's, I had threatened to earlier. I said I don't it wouldn't have solved anything and I would have looked like a fool. To which H replied "well we all look like fools"

So then H once again brings up the why didn't I call and I finally said I'm sorry I hurt your feelings and H said well it wouldn't be the first time and hung up.

He was here earlier in the day, must have took a shower and put clean clothes and then put his work boots back on and didn't take anything else with him.

Now if I was an observer of this sitch, I'd say that H had OW help him out as she has two vehicles, gave H one and now he's stuck in her debt and trying to make me out to be the bad person becuase I DIDN'T CALL AND LOOK WHAT I HAD TO DO and it's all my fault!! I would think sooner or later ever H would tire of his same old excuses games.

He didn't take the cover for his boat either, which is odd, maybe THIS boat isn't as important to him as I thought. I wonder if I would have called H 15 minutes after OW called him and asked if he needed help he would have agreed to let me help or instead say something like "OW called first" and you didn't so you're the bad person now.

So I'm alone once again tonight..not suprising I guess. S is asleep and I can relax for awhile.

Cathy

P.S. thanks again holdingon...the checks in the mail and I'm on level ground once again.