Evening Update, should have known, felt it and knew it was coming.

No contact with H today. I did leave him a nice vm just saying hi which he never returned, but didn't think he would either so no expectation.

Get home from work boat is gone. So figure H is out on the lake. About 8ish storm warnings come on, the phone rings and it's H.

H: Just wanted to let you know I'm not on the lake

His voice is so quiet, emotionless is more the word.

M: Good I'm glad you're not on the lake, there are storm warnings out and I have to get Son out of tub. , I'm at OW's (the town OW is from is what he says, doesn't say OW's name at all), BUT he's calling from her house which is a FIRST.

H:yes get him out of the tub, same flat emotionless voice.

M: Are you coming home?

H: I don't know?

M: Were you on the lake at all?

H: Yes for awhile.

M: So you don't know if you're coming home?

H: I don't know.

M: Can I park my car in the garage then...yeah I said that..H said that's fine I'll move it if I come home.

H hangs up without saying goodbye or anything.

S and I go to the basement, it was kind of scary, but it blew over. Came back up stairs, I actually get down on my knees (I don't do this very often either) and start to pray and the phone rings it's H.

H: Are you okay?
M: Yes, but it was scarey for awhile. Are you coming home? Do you have your boat inside? H left the cover for it here.
H: No.
M: I heard background noise and ask H who's there and H said it's the TV.
H. I called to see if you were okay. And then H just hangs up on me, again.

S grabbed extension a few times and H wouldn't say a word until I could get the other phone from S4.

The whole conversation was H with his emotionless voice.

So what is up and why did he go there? I have no idea, BUT H called me from OW's twice to make sure we were okay? WHAT THE? He hasn't called me from there since last summer. I can count on one hand the number of times he's called me from OW's.

So I am big time, will go to bed and wait to hear from H in the morning.

I'm kind of pissed in away, like WHAT THE and why and WHY was he at OW's?. H wasn't drinking either. His voice sounded terrible I had to ask him what was wrong at one point and he just said he called to see if we were okay.

argghhh...that he's sitting there with OW having a grand ole time...okay maybe he's not, but why or why and WHAT THE and I'm going to bed now...

Cathy