Quote: I know you're familiar with my sitch currently but I thought I'd highlight that a hurdle for me early on was getting over the "fact" that h is never going to "work on" our M. in the manner that I thought was necessary -- R talks, MC maybe, R books, etc. Simple fact is that he doesn't process stuff the way that I do...and once I was able to accept that AND the limbo that it felt as though it represented...well, I don't know, I was able to see and feel more appreciative of the way he DOES process things. Now, this is not a perfect process for me, of course...
This got my attention this morning and is something for me to remember. That H IS different from me. I'm just beginning to see/know my H as a person and will continue to work on getting to know my H as the individual that he is.
Thanks Sage...this makes so much sense and is an "ahh haa" moment for me.
