Well, he is still at the house and I told him to leave...he won't. He says its his house and he is staying for our son. I told him that it would be better if he just leaves. He can't stand all the bills but won't get a job. Well, this morning he was more civil and is applying for a job at a Pawn Shop (which he visits alot....) We are down to nothing and he either has to S or get off the pot!! He wants to sell the house and him get his share....I don't think so as my money was put into it. He won't go seek help just says he can handle it by HIMSELF... Well, I don't see a why to throw him out...if so how do you do it??? I do love him but this is stupid to put up with all this. To me families need to stick together through money crisis not pull away and not do ANYTHING. Someone told me "Don't let the bastards get you down". thats hard to do when you love someone. Its really hard for me to be strong but I'm trying. I keep reading about doing for me and my son but I have always done for him too...Rowena