Deb, What're you trying to do, make me propose again??
Seriously you are doing everything right. I can't believe the amount of strength that I see coming from the people on these boards--it is just so inspiring!
OW really sounds like a headcase. I think he is depressed and mourning her but he is under no more delusions about who he wants. YOU are indeed the prize and he knows this. Now he just has to deal with the guilt of dragging another person into his (then) unhappy marriage, as well as for what he has done to you. That would make me cry in the middle of the night too.
