Your list matches mine pretty well! It is great that you are so in touch with your feelings Deb and that it takes (seemingly) little effort to answer what could have been a complicated question.
I really wish our Hs could answer such a question ...but I think that your H would balk and mine...well he just wouldn't answer....or would "get back to me on it". HA
Okay, so what would make our Hs turn to someone as a port in the storm? IMHO, I think it's a lot harder for men to even admit that they need a port to begin with! So I try really hard not to be an "obvious" port, as to not hurt his pride. (Thinking that this port analogy is just about used up. )
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