we must have been posting at the same time. You are going to make yourself sick worrying about every thing he is doing. You have two choices, ask him about the descrepancies or let them go. Do not wallow in them. It will destroy all the hard work you have done. I asked and in the beginning it was rough but H understood my need to do this was a direct result of being lied to for so long and the asking has tapered down to zero now, it wont last forever. If you choose to let it go, then let it go. Write it in a journal, keep it hear, but let it go, once it has been written down. Just ask yourself, if he is lying to you again what can you really do about it? Nothing. you cannot force him to be honest. All you can do it what is best for Deb.
