I just remembered, H was making the little crying/whimpering sounds in the night again either Sunday night or Monday night....that's the 2nd or 3rd time I've heard him do that. last time was before the big "recommittment" episode......... don't know what that means or if it means anything at all, other than he's sad about something. He did say around that same time that he was angry about the choices he has to make now.....so maybe that would explain part of his pulling back.