Thanks for taking my suggestions with a grain of salt. I didn't realize that your cabin was a membership type of thing, my idea was not to never go there again but rather that it might be nice and a welcome change to find a new spot for Labor Day. Vareity is the Spice Of Life.
Don't know what there is in the great state of KS or nearby but around here there is a cabin place for couples only that offers meals delivered to your cabin, hot tubs in room, etc. Maybe it might be time for a change to "spice things up" a bit.
I know H is an outdoor type, likes to hike, etc. What about you, what would you like to do or want to go? A plane ticket on southwest from KS City is relatively cheap if you plan ahead and there are lots of fun destinations. Is there $ in the budget for something more exotic? What about Vegas? Phoenix/Sedona is fun too and outdoorsy. I haven't been to San Antonio but have heard good things. Our cousins from KS thought that Durango was great.
Just thinking out loud, I love to travel and have adventures. I don't see it as letting OW win, but as a chance to make a new memory in a new place. Make the world your oyster and you might just find a pearl.
