I am a redneck too, and yummy food make my neck red as well as when I am very upset!
I wish that you could quit it already about the ring. After all he didn't wear it for a year and now it seems like the only time he takes it off is to exercise or do physical labor. It's just a ring, not a daily indicator of his relational temp with you. Drop the rope, girlfriend.
Second, how bout a new vacation trysting spot. I would like to see you go somewhere new so there aren't all the issues with that cabin and OW history.
that's my 2 cents, if it's too hard for you to drop the rope on that ring thing that's ok. I gues we all have our "triggers."
and yummy food make my neck red as well as when I am very upset!
