OMG...Deb, sorry to hear about your current sitch. Guess what..I am at similar stage also...Back to square one!
We were supposed to move in together by end of this week and up to last week he sounded so sure of coming back to me but now he isnt. He has doubts. So I told him that I'm not moving in with him unless he has a firm decision and in the meantime I am going a bit dark. I know that is a bit risky and I have to move on. We have to move on deb, let them see that we are important too. Yes, we want them to stay, we want them to come back...but at some point, we cannot play lovey dovey anymore, it will only hurt us. After all, we are merely flesh and blood. Maybe its time we think about ourselves first while they work out their mess.
Take care...By the way I think when you have time to catch up with my thread, you can see that we are not sisters after all...
Sometimes the very thing you're looking for is the one thing you can't see..