Quote: This is all him Deb. When he says things like "how did we get here", remember "we" didnt get here, at this point today, H did.
Amen! He should be chasing and trying to win YOU, not the other way around!
There was something that I really liked in an article I read a couple of months back. The line was that marriage doesn't make people happy, it just makes them married. So many of us have these grand ideas that marriage is supposed to make us happy - your H is probably looking for happiness, but if he's not happy with himself, he won't find it anywhere. This isn't about you, it is about him and his issues/unhappiness/etc.
