DFB said it very well, you are the prize to be won, not him and maybe it's time to start acting like one. This is all him Deb. When he says things like "how did we get here", remember "we" didnt get here, at this point today, H did. You have corrected your mistakes and changed for the better. YOu have done all the work to become a better stronger woman. He has not really done anything but waffle back and forth between two women. MUst be a great ego boost. OUR H's become bored or unhappy or dissatfied with their lives and rather than dig deep to find out why and come to us with the reasons they turn to these OW who make them "feel" again. It is not her he is dreading to leave it is the "feeling" he gets from that R because of the secrecy and lies and the 100% all out attention from her. He wont see that it cant last and he will be worse off if he is in "her" house and "her" child and "her life, because they really are not his life. You and his children are. It is too bad he cant get beyond his ego a little and see this. Does he really think living in someone eles's house and raising someone elses child are going to make him happy?Listen to your heart. It will tell you what to do. You deserve happiness in your life too Deb
