Hi Debra....I appreciate your thoughts. Frankly that is where i'm getting to....his waffling is driving me nuts, and I think it is as hard for S....I am trying very hard to get myself centered and calm, I don't know if I should wait just a couple more weeks to see what he does after vacation or not, but I am going to tell him he has to make it stick. I told him Tuesday it obviously would never be over until he did, that she is just manipulating him.....he is just so far out in left field, it is incredible....I have actually been walking around telling myself to drop the rope....catch you later this evening or tomorrow.....gotta go get S from horseback riding....need many prayers to help me think this through and see clearly.
