I'm sorry Deb - I hope you can enjoy at least some of the trip. Do the Whitewater Rafting, it sounds like a lot of fun!
As far as how long it takes to get over a marriage or affair, etc....I think it depends on who initiates the breakup. There would be a lot more factors in that as well. Don't go by numbers - if your husband is still that attached, it's a problem. But he is on vacation with you - so enjoy it, okay? But you can't go for your whole marriage with him being that attached to someone else. He needs to dump her or be with her until it's finished. He can't have both of you.
