Still thinking of you. It does seem like such terrible timing for this to happen. But I don't think it's such a coincidence, do you?
OW has knowledge of your plans and I am sure that she is pulling something. Let her pull and get your family out of town and your H out of her reach. Give him a few days of fun with you and your son on vacation and watch his perspective change again!
Keep R talks to absolute minimum! Keep yourself sane by repeating to yourself all the wonderful things that your H has said to you....
Be strong Deb. Be confident. You have it ALL OVER that wh@#@!
For right now you are the sane one in the family. Take the lead.