LL- Do you have any advice on what to do while H is gone? He decided to stay somewhere else last night. OW's house of course, one consolation, she's not there. She's moved and the house is empty til it's been sold. He's not sure when he'll be back. He did say he'd be at the bus stop on Tuesday morning to send the kids off to their first day of school. (That's fine, but it would be nice if he could HELP them get ready for the first day of school.)He says he wants our marriage to work and that the girls (7,5,2) are the most important things in his life. He just want to make sure that I can still love him, that I can still trust him and that I still want our marriage to work. He thought about all of this over the weekend. The weekend that he spent with her. WHAT!?
I'll just start rambling again. Any advice? Yes, I do want him to come home, but I wasn't going to throw myself at his feet and beg him to stay. I told him that if he felt he had to go, then he should go. bye
I should add that this was the first time the kids and I were home since we left 3 weeks ago to visit family.
Last edited by Mellanie; 08/23/0411:33 AM.
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