Nice to hear from you Tony..but that was not the nicest post..sorry.maybe I've been gone too long and missed something

LL...I hear ya...I am guessning you married him because you love him...things have been so turned upside down for you for a long time..all while trying to care for two young kids and a home and yourself..who wouldn't be exhausted and frustrated.I learned the hard way,that two people have to take care of their m..along with everything else..your h works incredible hours..you already know you can't change him..he has to be the one to see it..when, who knows..when it is too late..sometimes that's when it happens..but we all know here, that it is never too late.

I know you will figure it out..you will do what is best for you and your kids..

Sue