Quote: What if you packed a suitcase for the kids and spent a few days / a week with your Mom. No warning ... just up and left after he'd gone to work. When he discovers where you are, be vague and only let on that you're looking to find some things out...
... and for your conception what you're looking to find out doesn't require you to do anything but sit tight and wait to see exactly what he is willing to do to show you he wants you back.
It may be a means to getting the answers you're looking for so you can get some piece of mind.
If I didn't have children or if they weren't to soon start school this might be an option...but I doubt it would do much good...other than to make me look like the bad guy.
h is content in his world and believes that I should be content as well. He is who he is and isn't likely to change via threats of me leaving.
I knew what I was getting when I married him...I simply hoped that his promises of things (work) getting better (him having more time) were true.
