Quote: I wish my H had done something like that before he decided my friend was more 'fun'.
oh lvnl, you talk to me as if I'm the was, Let's not forget I wasn't the one to have an a (h was), I wasn't the one to leave (h was) I wasn't the one to claim I had never had those feelings for my spouse or that "it" was never there blah blah blah (h was)
Do you not think that I have presented these "what if's" in various wording many times over the years? His response is usually "go find someone better" "why don't you just leave" and a whole slew of other things that make me say to myself "what if I ran away?" "what am I doing here" or he may just sit there and say nothing at all.
So most of the time I don't bother to say anything anymore...why bother.
I say it here because I figure someone might understand where I'm coming from.
