LL just wanted you to know that I'm listening. What's the secret, huh? I asked the question "wouldn't it be the pits if we made it through this and I ended up the WAW?" We want to make ourselves as "attractive" as possible to our Hs and wonder what are they doing for us. He admits I'm working at this more intently than he is, but does nothing to meet me in the middle.
And, another thing, are they really as busy as they say they are? H gets called into work an awfull lot, so much that it makes me doubt that he's really going to work. But then, when it's really work, I come off as the spoiled brat because I make a face or roll my eyes when he says he's been called in. It's your own fault buddy!
Didn't mean to vent, just to acknowledge. Take care.
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