tust, what's love got to do with it

[lostlove]

LL, you are soo young, your H has a business, you're lonely, two kids....what's going to keep you from walking away some day?

nothing

I do my best but what kind of a m is that?


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I don't know about this either, aren't all marriages a little different?

Yes they are all different

Are you looking for the storybook marriage?

certainly not...I may be young but I'm not naive

What "kind of m" do YOU want and then ask your H what kind of M he wants...will they be the same?

in some areas they would be the same in others maybe not as much but the given answer from h seems to depend on what day you ask.

Have you come right out and asked H if he was happy?

I asked him plenty of times before the a, during the a (before I knew about it) and have asked since. His answer was always yes. But does someone who's happy in their m have an affair and then leave. That would clearly indicate unhappiness to me..and since things aren't much different than they were then why should I assume he's happy now?