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LL,

Sounds like nothing works, you're not happy, you don't know what to do, H doesn't care....so relax and just live your life and leave it all alone.

it does sound that way doesn't it? AND it did sound that way prior to ow and seperation, d threat and all that but h always claimed to be ok. Aparently he wasn't. so then am I to just be happy and ASSume that he's happy and things are ok despite the fact that things seem much like they were before?

Can you do that?

I do my best but what kind of a m is that?

Cathy

P.S. How old is your H?? And you??
I am 31 and h? well how old is he now? 35. Been married 6 1/2 years, dated off and on 9 years prior to m. 2 kids 5 and 2 1/2. H started his business 15 years ago