What would happen if you arranged for a sitter, booked a table for two in a great restaurant, movie theatre seats, whatever, and surpised H with this night out arrangement? Could you try it?
Livnlearn
hi lvnlrn,
I could try it but this time of year it may only serve to build more resentment in me. I have cooked nice dinners with h in mind only to have him arrive home several hours after the kids and I have already eaten...so actually getting a sitter and making reservations might get ME out of the house but there's no way of knowing when HE would get home to join me...and of course making the arraingments would serve to add more stress to his schedule since after all he can't even manage a date night at home.
great idea though and if he had a more predictable schedule it might work.
