Quote: LL, I think that in the back of all of our heads we may wonder if we can ever trust them again. then what's the point? And I would imagine that those who have spouses who are ACTIVELY working toward a better m don't ponder the isse half as much. Maybe let it be a good thing so it can motivate you guys both to not take your M for granted. I don't see how my lack of trust in h motivates him in anyway and it sure does little to motivate me. since after all I have no control over it. Maybe he needs to wonder if LL will always be here? doesn't matter to him...he's mr confidence, mr "go find someone better" mr. "you don't know how good you've got it"
Is thgat voice getting quiter and quiter as time goes on? it's not necessarily gettine quieter it's simply getting more confident so it doesn't have to scream at me so much..the confidence being that if/when a time comes that a reason for mistrust is brought to the table I will be confident enough not to waist my time reading books about how it was my fault to begin with and what I can do to win back a lying cheating person who just expects me to be happy no matter what he does or doesn't do for the r.
