Debi - my take on this is to recommend that rach007 set up a very healthy boundary on this activity. Cloud and Townsend's book "Boundaries in Marriage" brings up this very topic and illustrates a very positive approach - one which shows a loving and concerned attitude by the W but letting her H know that he would have to give up the pornography and seek help or she would leave the M.
Rach - we haven't heard from you in a while. Can you update us?
Me 52, STBEX 52 D 17, S 12 M 20 years Em Sep since 2002, Phys Sep Sept 2009
