Quote: I am in total disagreement with the others. It is infidelity and if you talk to men who have taken their life a step further, it started witn porn.
I am not pro-porn, but you can call it infedelity in the same way that looking on a woman with lust is. Unfortunately, most men look on women with lust, and I don't know too many men who don't look at porn at all.
Personally - and again I'm not pro-porn, I think men and women in the workplace together is more dangerous than a man who looks at porn is (as far as affairs and such).
I would bet that nearly 100% of men with the internet look at some porn. And if you aren't willing to be with a man who does look, then don't get married. Because most guys I know - including Christians and such, have looked at some point (or do occasionally or frequently).