Hi Rache007 - I am just reading through some of the posts - as I have been doing for my sanity these last few days - and I happend to stumble across yours. Your situation is a lot like mine. The only difference is that my H has actually pursued some of the grls he has discovered online. He likes to get these things called exotic body to body rubdowns plus more . When I discoved this I was crushed to say the least. To me this is a form of adultery/infidelity. Especially when that proverbial "thin line" is crossed. This afternoon I discovered my misreable H had a visit to the seedy little cheap Motel 6. I drove 40 miles there tonight (with my little ones in two) to get a copy of his guest receipt. I don't know why I have this compulsive need to gather "evidence". Well to no avail, the manager would not release the info to me. Rache007, I went OFF right in the lobby. I have never done anything like this before. I consider my self a rather dignified and poised individual. Oh well, he## came flying out of me tonight! This whole thing must be getting to me. Everytime I discover that he's had another risque rondevous I begin to seethe with intense fury! THis is not good. All that said...keep your eyes open and make him communicate with you. You don't want the "peep show" to turn into the real deal. That causes soooo much pain and agony.
. When I discoved this I was crushed to say the least. To me this is a form of adultery/infidelity. Especially when that proverbial "thin line" is crossed. This afternoon I discovered my misreable H had a visit to the seedy little cheap Motel 6. I drove 40 miles there tonight (with my little ones in two) to get a copy of his guest receipt. I don't know why I have this compulsive need to gather "evidence". Well to no avail, the manager would not release the info to me. Rache007, I went OFF right in the lobby. I have never done anything like this before. I consider my self a rather dignified and poised individual. Oh well, he## came flying out of me tonight! This whole thing must be getting to me. Everytime I discover that he's had another risque rondevous I begin to seethe with intense fury! THis is not good. All that said...keep your eyes open and make him communicate with you. You don't want the "peep show" to turn into the real deal. That causes soooo much pain and agony. 
