wildebube:

I call it my "Excuse of the Month Club". And as Michelle says, who cares what the reason is, look for solutions. As for the Bait and Switch, I do believe this is VERY common. Afterall, would any young women in the dating world tell her suitors, "Ya knwo, I really could care less about sex". They would be burning rubber backing out of the driveway. Some women know they are LD very early, and they have to hide it. My wife was not LD early on though. She was HD for 4 years, and then all the "Problems" came into her life. I bet I could come up with 20 reasons whey she id LD. Where to start?