Sorry, CeMar, I still can't go along with you on this. How can you say that "these LD women don't see sex as an EMOTION. They are hung up on the frequency and the mechanics of sex"? In my experience, women have MUCH more emotion involved in the whole sex thing than men do. I don't mean to say that men aren't emotionally involved in it, just that women are more emotional about it than men are. I also suspect that your statement about them being hung up on the frequency and mechanics is based on your W's response to what she perceives as pressure to perform more often. For reasons yet to be determined, she isn't presently inclined to ML with the same frequency that you are, but from the statements you've made here, it's clear that you demand frequent, passionate, lusty sex filled with desire. Don't you think that puts pressure on your W to perform on queue? Don't you think that pressure might make her uncomfortable? Don't you see that pressure like that would have a tendency to suck the passion and desire out of it? I'm as horny as the next guy, but if I knew that my feelings didn't matter, that I was expected to ML X number of times per week whether I felt like it or not, and if I knew that I had better do it with zeal and gusto every time or I would be a failure and not filling my W's love bank, it would sure kill my desire.
As I said before, I'm new here and I may well be reading you wrong, but it seems like you're unwilling to bend. You're HD and you EXPECT your partner to be HD - all the time.
