You just want a woman who likes sex and ANY OTHER admirable quality she might possess doesn't matter? She could be a worthless mother, dishonest, unfaithful, horrible to you and yet.....yet....if she has wild and passionate sex with you, your love tank would be full.
Are you listening to yourself, man?!
For what it's worth, I want desire too. However, I am not nearly as hung up on him having the RIGHT kind of desire.
As long as his mind and body are open to me drawing out the desire, then I am game.
I think you are making the mistake of assuming that a woman who is passionate about her marriage yet also still LD would continue to act the way your wife acts.
I can guarantee you that the reason that she takes so long to get revved up and is so bored-acting and unresponsive is because she has little desire and passion for the marriage right now. If you can tackle THAT, then it won't matter if her desire cycle is backwards. She will WANT the passion as much as you do and, though you will have to stimulate her for the desire to come out full force, it will happen much sooner and she will WANT it and be open to it. She will initiate it and look forward to it.
Can you see the difference between that scenario and the types of encounters that you have with her right now?
