While I can certainly identify with the feelings you express, I just can't go along with you on this one. There's no doubt that I have enough problems and failures of my own, but I sure see some big ones in your last remarks - ones I've seen from you before. How about:
Quote: No man in their right mind would date a women that has little desire for sex.
I take exception to that. Are you saying that the LD husbands of all of the women on this board are not in their right minds? Are you saying that anyone who can't see the value of a good woman outside of the bedroom is out of their mind? What about an honest, loyal, faithful, supportive, woman who loves life, loves and cares for her children and does her best to provide a nurturing home for them and her husband? Is she worth less than a woman who wants to f**k three times a day? I think not.
Quote: It is her way of saying that you have to set your sights really low as the LD partner will never really be capable of matching up with a HD partner.
Sorry, I can't buy that either. There's NOBODY on this board that gets less than I do (at least not that I've seen) but even I haven't given up hope. If you think having an LD partner is "so incredibly INCOMPATIBLE" and if you think that the LD partner "will never really be capable of matching up", then what's the point of even trying? What's the point of being here? Why not dump the old bag and go find some hot one?
But the kicker is this one:
Quote: So, Honeypot, if her arrousal pattern is backwards, how can a couple overcome this without the Man having to do all the work
Backwards? Did you really say backwards? So anybody with a different arousal pattern than yours is backwards and has a problem that needs to be "overcome"? I hate to burst your bubble, but horny as I am, I still doubt that I would have much interest in ML with someone displaying that kind of attitude. Why would I want to ML with someone who thinks that the way I get aroused is backwards and needs to be fixed?
I'm sorry to flame you. As I've said, I agree with a lot that you've said as far as wanting to be wanted and wanting your W to ML with you because she WANTS to ML with you. But I also have problems with some of this kind of stuff. I don't know, I'm new here and may well be reading you wrong, but it sure isn't coming across as understanding and trying to work on your differences.
