For those who have been following the saga, and offering valuable advice, this is where we are now.
I has been more than two weeks and W has had zero contact with OM. I am certain of this since I was able to monitor their contact before, and she also has no unexplained behaviour. From my point of view, this is very good and I consider myself extremely fortunate given that the whole ordeal lasted only three months and nothing physical ever happened between them. Given the other stories I have read on this site, I count myself lucky.
Now comes the hard work, rebuilding our marriage. So, I'll likely start a thread in another forum that is more suited to that topic.
