Thanks for the advice. Both of you have advocated drawing a firm line about what can and cannot be tolerated within this relationship, and I am struggling with that.
My wife returned from a vacation this morning and has already emailed the other man. She tells him that she wants to work things out with me and feels closer to me. Then she goes on to say that she wants to have more email contact, more meetings, and still wants to go to Europe with him. In addition, she told him that while she was buying lingerie she was only thinking of him!
How can I continue to deal with this? Should I tell her to have no more contact with him? Is that placing demands on her, and should I try to avoid that? Or, should I just wait it out?
