In your earlier posts, it sounded as if you wanted to work this out and were going to do what it took to do that.
Your worry now is about something that you think will happen, not something that has happened yet. You are driving yourself crazy with it, and it hasn't yet happened.
You can't control your W right now, and in reality you never could. She probably isn't making any sense to you right now either, because she is totally focused on the other man.
So if you are committed to having this work, stay the course. It is going to take some time.
Everybody has a line though, and you have to decide what yours is. When she crosses that line, make your stand and be firm if that is how you really feel. Once you do that though, there is usually no going back.
