Honey, it would be best to strat your own post. That way when people answer it will be easier to know who they are answering. But I will give you my thoughts.
Quote: I started with the last resort technique and he noticed right away. But I just can't keep the positive vibes going. I'm jealous, questioning, trying to be logical. Now he's decided to move out of the house.
You will have to work on the jealousy, it will just drive you nuts. And being logical will not really be of mush help, because our spouses will not respond to logic at the moment. The best plan of action is to find your cheeseless tunnals and stop looking for the chesse there. Stop do the same old and try something new.