I feel for you, I'm in the W shoes though, wondering if I want to stay or go? I met someone at a vulnerable time and never imagined anything like this to happen. I love both and have so much history with H (18yrs, 3 kids) but have never been so totally myself with anyone ever until I met my new best friend. I never thought this would ever happen to us, it started as a friendship, grew into a connection I cannot even explain or understand. I question why? and Why now? You can't help who your heart picks. It's even harder when your heart is torn and doesn't know who to "pick". Pray, Pray, Pray!!