Hi all, My H has been going through alot as I put on my other posts. Money is his biggest concern and losing all that he has. Then he has been really ugly to me as it was my money that we always had and its gone. He is at home but he says he still loves the OW and that he doesn't want to go to therapy and he doesn't want to get over her. He tells me that he loves me and for me to find someone better than him. He is staying at the house and said he isn't going back to her. I told him if he really loves her to PLEASE LEAVE and don't ever come back. He WON'T go. I don't understand. Maybe he can't afford to go but she does have an apt. Before he told me that she had 3 personalities and that he really could never be with her and she was so imature (22). He plays so many games. He told me last night he was going back to her and I left and came back a few hours later and he has never packed or even left. I just don't know if he is trying to hurt me to make me hurt as much as he is hurting or what??? Michelle if you are there can you respond to this PLEASE!!! He still tells me he loves me. I'm so confused....He told me today that he wasn't going to be my lover anymore. Our finances are really getting bad and I'm the only one working. I'm angry with him but I told him that he can find something he likes and it would make him feel better being busy and making money and all. He is like in a hole and can't get out.... HELP!! Rowena
