Hi there Kay how are you today? The reason I said something is because I have felt the same way you do about wanting attention from Hubby. I get more attention from other men in my life than him.. compliments too.. And I learned if I really wanted to make my marriage work I needed to stay away from that because it doesn't not help you resolve things at home.. It is teaching you to go outside of your marriage to make it work. Why would we call it a marriage if it is the case.. Anyway I don't want to sound like I am preaching (I hope I don't). For me what I have found is finding things that make me happy and finding out what I want and need and taking it upon myself to fulfill my needs insted of waiting on someone else to fill them for me. That is a lot easier said than done and I still have a lot of work to do in that area but it is helping a lot.. ;-)