Kay I don't quite understand.. You say you want to make your marriage work but you called #'s for a dating service to talk to men. Why would you want to call a dating service and talk to men not both men and woman.. Have you ever heard the old sayin' If you hang around a barbar shop long enough you will get a haircut. Basically if you do want your marriage to work in my opinon you are playing with fire. I can so realate to wanting that affection and attention because I am with ya 110% because I am in the same boat.. I am just thinking talking to these other men and working your marriage out don't go hand in hand especially if you plan on staying with him anotherr 9-10 years..
