Guys, I've read the last few posts written about being celibate. I have been married for 15 years and for 14 of those, the S has been VERY saddening. However, I have tried to live the Celibate lifestyle and I explode with anger and frustration. I can not give my wife the touching she wants and not be S. The only way I could take on a life of celibacy would be to more into another room in the home when sleeping, and take on a general attitude of this is my room mate, not wife. I can not do that, but my W has pushed and pushed me into that mind set.
I have to admit when reading your posts I have felt heart broken and a general anger toward my wife and women in general. Thank GOD for ladies like Mojo and Honeypot who help me understand that this HD/LD/ND problem is not just a 'Man/Woman' problem--it is also a 'Woman/Man' problem as well.
