Chocolate, I guarantee that she has noticed. Whether or not she shares it with you might be another story.
When you say you've done a 180, does that mean that you have backed off from initiating sex, or have you backed off of ALL affection?
In my marriage, I took what I was given for years and then...I don't know..one day I just snapped. I suspect that it was because I had a two month old baby at the time and was already on thin ice, sanity wise. That was literally the last time that I have been willing to be silent or "go with the flow" in regards to MY sex life.
I am not doggin your choice for celibacy, I am just wondering how on earth you remain affectionate and kind? I think that if I had expressed a need for more sex and it was not met with something along the lines of cooperation, that I would have shut off myself completely. Now, admittedly, this would have been the WRONG thing to do but I was at the end of my rope at that point.
