Hi Livnlearn,

I hope taking him out of my life will help, I think it will, because being in contact with him just keeps me wishing he would give us another chance.

So how do you cultivate good neighborliness? I have never had close neighbors, other than when in my apartment.

Thank you for reminding me of the two sides, something I have always heard is your positive traits are on the flip side also your negative personality traits.

I do believe in God, heaven and h*ll. I also believe that here on earth you are completely right about two sides and here lately I have been looking at the bad side. I knew I was down, but it hadn't really hit me I was only looking at the bad side. That is a very BAD habit of mine!

One that I would like very much to break. I guess when extremely stressed it is way too easy for me to fall back into old habits. I wish new behaviors would become the habits so they aren't so much hard work!

Hope everyone has a great day! That is my plan, to try to find some bright sides today.


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"