If not being in contact with your H will help you to keep emotionally stable, then do it. It doesn't have to stay that way for ever, but do what you need to do for you, right now.
What's wrong with neighbours? They 'can' be great, - fun, friends, helpful etc! I always make a point of cultivating good neighbourliness, and have been fortunate in making good friends that way too.
Always look on the bright side of life!
Livnlearn
PS One thing I have learned about life, everything, every choice or situation is like a coin - it has two sides. Whatever you see as a 'good' thing, probably has its negative aspects, while every 'bad' thing will also have it's positive aspects. Nothing is completely bad or good, which is why there are no such things as saints or heaven. Hope I am not treading on any religious toes here?
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
