C&S --

You may find Calystra's story helpful. It won't so much address the issue of stopping with the OM...but it may highlight some of the challenges you may face with h.

This is one of her posts that lists links to her threads:

Cal's history

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.