Slowly, I've never posted on your thread before though have read quite a bit of yours and I think we have some mutual BB friends as well. The reason I particularly read your posts is that we share the infuriating situation of an OW who is in picture seemingly forever.....PA ends, begins, ends, begins, and EA or contact or whatever continues on.......So I am deeply interested in your response this time.
I am usually way too available and this time around the wheel I have made the decision to pull back from that. We'll see where it leads.
Cheers and good luck with the mystery/get a life/be less available strategy. I'll be reading!